Innuendos

Nippin’ it in the butt

Sex has taken a brave new journey deep into one of the most infamous body cavities. Anal sex is one of those kinky little things that most people will not admit to trying. The subject of anal sex brings on strong feelings of discomfort to some, but you knew that I would have to talk about it sooner or later.

I feel that anal sex is not about pleasure or love; rather, it is about power. Though I have heard that it can be quite pleasurable, there has to be some other reason for doing it. Any man who “conquers” that particular area has to feel a sense of control over the man or woman he had anal sex with.

The anus is not the most flexible of muscles, and for a man to force himself into that area has to cause a certain amount of distress. The muscle has the tendency to tense up when a foreign object tries to enter it. Like they said in the movie In and Out, the anus is a definite “out hole.” Unlike a vagina, the anus has no natural lubrication. Without this lubrication, anal sex can be very painful.

In the sexual world, anal sex is like reaching the top of Mount Everest; the conqueror would suddenly feel more like a man. Successfully infiltrating the anus and living to tell about it has to give some boost to a man’s ego. Anal sex would give instant access to bragging rights for the guy. I would think the bragging would embarrass the other person. Though a person might believe they are doing it out of love or pleasure, the fact remains that it is about power.

A man can then look at his significant other and see them as inferior, always thinking of that time when they “conquered” him or her. Introducing anal sex into a relationship would change the nature of the bond between the two people. The man and woman, or man and man (whichever the case may be), would never be equal from that moment on. In someone’s head would be the idea of being stronger or more powerful than the other.