Life 101

An hour of misery

 

By TERRENCE  WIGGINS

 

            You come into a room with a hard wooden table. Once you begin to sit down, all you see are stern faces prepared to spend more than an hour of their lives in the chair. All the people in the room are pondering the things they could be doing. Instead, they are stuck there with you. Everyone sits and waits patiently as each person is given his or her time to speak. You roll your thumbs, hoping that it will make time go faster. It doesn’t seem to speed up, so sweat starts rolling down your brow. Your throat is dry. This uncomfortable atmosphere makes you want to do nothing but plunge for the door . . . or better yet, a nearby window.

            What scenario am I describing? I am talking about the meeting room, the conference room or the boardroom—whatever you call the place where meetings may take place.

            Do meetings get the job done? For some, it is a tradition. Planning an event? Call a meeting. Want to listen to a report? Call a meeting. Want to see a presentation? Call a meeting. Want to get out of the office, go somewhere fun and goof off for a small amount of time on company’s money? Call a retreat/conference. . . oops, I mean a meeting.

            Meetings are long, boring, unavoidable and sometimes unnecessary. However, some are understandable—such as a company merger or a drastic event cannot happen without meeting face to face. The problem is that, in the petty, little meetings, everyone sits around a table, screaming about what they were doing for the past week. In reality, the update is just an excuse on why your boss never sees you at your desk doing work, or why you are never in your office when someone needs you.

            Other unnecessary meetings include the old-fashioned lecture, “let’s recap” meeting. This is where the head of the department wants to say something to everyone at one time. These meetings are the worst of all. It is the boss’s opportunity to push his or her team by spilling out a lot of motivation techniques, such as, “You guys are simply the best,” or “Our 2001 report said we did 25 percent better than the year 2000.” Next time just tell your boss if he or she wants to really thank everyone for all the hard work, he or she should just give the workers a bonus in their paychecks instead of wasting their time.

            With new forms of technology, we do not need to be in the hassle of running from one meeting to the next.  Updates and the good ol’ boss’ pats on the back can be done through e-mails, voicemails, company news releases, bulletins, teleconferencing, web conferencing and the other numerous ways which have opened our channels of communication even further. In conclusion, there are 24 hours in a day. Let’s not try to get stuck spending eight hours or more of that day in an unnecessary meeting.